(December 31, 2012 at 3:54 pm)FutureAndAHope Wrote:(December 31, 2012 at 12:46 pm)TaraJo Wrote: This line of thinking might have meant something for me, except that I used to be a Christian and I was as sincere as fuck when I prayed. All I wanted was a little comfort, but in the end, I got more of that from a teddy bear than any god.
I am sorry to hear this. I hope that you find your way back to God, as he really does have your best interests in mind.
Please don't do that. I can't speak for Tara, but I'm fairly sure she won't appreciate you telling her what you think her best interests are.
(December 31, 2012 at 3:54 pm)FutureAndAHope Wrote: My life at times, even as a Christian was full of deep sorrow. As an example I could never find a wife, I had some girlfriends but they would always end up dumping me and leaving me heart broken. I felt like God just did not care. One a few occasions I even sinned against God due to the fear, and sorrow. However God was gracious, and told me a person I could marry, the person actually ended up marrying me, and we have a very good relationship. So all my years of sorrow were taken away by God. Like that verse says, if we don't give up eventually we will get the answer to our prayers.
I'm glad that you are happy and have a wife. However, as there is no empirical evidence that prayer does anything (in fact, there are numerous studies that show prayer is at best a placebo), I think you are giving poor advice on how to deal with a given situation.
"Two hands working can do more than a thousand clasped in prayer."




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