(February 11, 2013 at 11:02 pm)Violet Lilly Blossom Wrote: I don't worry about her very much, we've both had a bit of sex on the side... but as the general rule of thumb: we're supposed to ask each other first (or in my case, just tell me). It's the one and only rule in this relationship
I'm very much a fan of 'a third' as a lifelong partner... her much less so It'd be on her, not me
Have you ever told her "no" to any partner she may have chosen? If you've never told her no, nor ever will, why have the rule? (or is the rule more for you)
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