(July 3, 2013 at 7:54 pm)Inigo Wrote:Like many have said, before me.(July 3, 2013 at 7:51 pm)pocaracas Wrote: First line of my post... did you even read it?
No, evidently not. So you agree that it would be wrong to tell her? You agree that if someone did tell her he/she would be doing something wrong?
- On her deathbed, there's no point in making her last moments on Earth, something even more painful
- If she still has decades to go, it's all right to tell her... just take it easy, when telling her these things. Even so, she may not believe me... after all, she's the one who lived with the guy for years, not me; why should she believe me? I'd require some proof for the claim that the husband did cheat on her... what kind of proof do I have to present her? You didn't mention this detail in your scenario.
The most likely outcome of just telling her, would be the very emotional NO reaction and a GET THE FUCK OUT and I DON'T EVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!