Apologist Matt Slick's atheist daughter tells of her experience growing up

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Also I notice to my disappointment that many athiests are just as closed minded as Christians.

Maybe your idea of close-mindedness is inability to accept unsubstantiated claims. (like the fact that god exists/could exist/might exist/whatever)

My idea of close-mindedness is people who are unwilling to try different ways of doing things, to understand other people's points of view, or to accept different lifestyles.

Saying we're close-minded because we don't believe certain things is rather self-defeating. It sort of means unless we believe in these things you'll always think less of us, because we're close-minded. That makes you rather close-minded.