(July 19, 2013 at 9:08 pm)Koolay Wrote:(July 19, 2013 at 8:41 pm)c172 Wrote: We as humans do judge. It's all about finding that line where you judge too much. Or maybe in an unproductive way.
When does it become unproductive or too much?
When you're assigning values to someone that is not immediately apparent.
In other words, if I say A, and you think i'm a bad person because A is a very bad thing to say, then you're ok. If I say A, and you think i must think B, C, D, E, F, and therefore am a bad person, then you're unproductively judgmental, because you judged too soon, now you won't know what I really think, or if i'm really a bad person.
If you don't judge someone for something you've assumed about them, it's generally alright.
