(July 23, 2013 at 2:34 am)pineapplebunnybounce Wrote: Love is a choice? Did you really say that? If it's a choice and i ask you to stop loving your mother for 10 seconds can you do it? You are no more in control of your love than I am. If I point to a woman you've never met before and say fall in love with her right now, then stop loving her after 2 hours, can you do it? What you have control over is your actions, not your love. And I fail to see why even if it's a choice, it'd be superior to godless love?
Edit: ahaha, saw your edit, interesting that you asked me the same question. Nope, i can't, and i won't. Why would i cause grieve to the people i love for someone i hate? I wouldn't do something that would upset the people I love, especially so unnecessarily. Can you do it? Your scenario I mean.
Jesus chose to love you, in spite of all the reasons he had not to. If he is in your heart, you have the power to forgive anyone, and love them too. I'm sorry you have not yet experienced this. When you are ready to meet the One who made you and loves you as you are, let me or any other believer know.