christian "love"

[Jackalope]

At issue for me are the ones who say, in their ever so piously condescending way, “Well I don’t care that you've changed, I still love you.”

I see what you're saying with respect to this - but in my own experience, I'm pretty sure at least some of those who have said something similar to me were sincere, if unaware of how condescending they came off sounding. On the other hand, I've known some downright nasty people.