(September 9, 2013 at 11:42 pm)Rahul Wrote: Being attracted to women other than your wife, not only physically, but mentally is normal enough. My wife and I don't hold to unreasonable concepts that once you are married you suddenly don't find anyone else attractive ever again. So that's not the issue. You can look but don't touch is fine.
That, I think, is a healthy attitude. The old joke is "honey, if I don't look, it means I'm dead."
Since both my wife and I are bi, we may have an easier time with this issue. Heck, I first met my wife online, it was because I was reading her gay porn and looking at her gay artwork online (for anime fans, this is called "Yaoi"). So if she says "oh, he's hot", I can say "hey, you're right, he is". Before anyone gets the wrong idea, no, we're not polyamourous. She's decidedly against that. Looking or admiring is not the same as acting on.
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"The trinity can be equated to having your cake and eating it too."
... -Lucent, trying to defend the Trinity concept
"(Yahweh's) actions are good because (Yahweh) is the ultimate standard of goodness. That’s not begging the question"
... -Statler Waldorf, Christian apologist
"The trinity can be equated to having your cake and eating it too."
... -Lucent, trying to defend the Trinity concept
"(Yahweh's) actions are good because (Yahweh) is the ultimate standard of goodness. That’s not begging the question"
... -Statler Waldorf, Christian apologist
