Some worthy advice from all of you, and on a side note, I think it's very telling that Pat Robertson, another vocal christian douche bag, justifies a man cheating on his wife while a bunch of atheists encourage one not to do it.
Typical christian morality.
You're right. I couldn't do it. Something would change inside me forever that I wouldn't want to carry.
Leaving me with only two options: Fix what I have or get a divorce.
A troubling dilemma since I have met people who are now significantly happier to have divorced the wrong person to be with the right person. My greatest problem with this option is that I LOVE seeing my son every day and all the wonderful things that come with watching him grow up. He's only 5 and if I got divorced, my time with him would be cut at LEAST in half. I don't know if I can handle that. He's my favorite thing in this world.
Meanwhile, I feel my wife and I beginning to fall away from each other, and it makes me wonder if I should let us go while we both still have time to meet someone new. I don't know. Life is such a mixed up journey and you don't always know if you've made the right choice till it's too late.

(September 10, 2013 at 8:42 am)Esquilax Wrote: it's your call to make- but I wouldn't consider cheating as an option; even if you do get away with it forever, you'll still know. You seem like a pretty good guy, I doubt you'd feel completely okay with it.
You're right. I couldn't do it. Something would change inside me forever that I wouldn't want to carry.
Leaving me with only two options: Fix what I have or get a divorce.
A troubling dilemma since I have met people who are now significantly happier to have divorced the wrong person to be with the right person. My greatest problem with this option is that I LOVE seeing my son every day and all the wonderful things that come with watching him grow up. He's only 5 and if I got divorced, my time with him would be cut at LEAST in half. I don't know if I can handle that. He's my favorite thing in this world.
Meanwhile, I feel my wife and I beginning to fall away from each other, and it makes me wonder if I should let us go while we both still have time to meet someone new. I don't know. Life is such a mixed up journey and you don't always know if you've made the right choice till it's too late.