Men Women Sex and Temptation

[John V]

Everyone who has ever gotten a divorce needs to grow up?

No. Every man who finds a woman who seems more alluring than his wife who's home with a young child needs to grow up.

Two people have to live an unhappy life because YOU think that "grown ups" should just accept their lot?

Again, not what I said. You shouldn't accept unhappiness, you should work for happiness with the person you committed to. Telling you to list out the good things about your was one way. Telling you to give her more time and attention was another.

Furthermore, I've done nothing. Is an adult not allowed to ask for advice for fear he might be told to "grow up?"

You're afraid of being told to grow up? As I said, if you're not happy with your wife, the real problem may be that you're not happy with yourself.

I didn't plan this conversation with this woman. I didn't have a clandestine meeting with her. I didn't cheat on anyone, nor did she offer me a stay in her vagina.

I didn't say you did any of those things. I'm telling you to purposely avoid her. If you can't avoid her altogether (e.g. you work with her), avoid being alone with her.

Calm down little sheep, men are allowed to talk to women here in the real world.

You're the on so upset by the feelings created by this talk that you made a thread on it. That you're allowed to do something doesn't mean it's beneficial.

Biblically?!?

The third point was. The two that you skipped over weren't.

If I did what was biblical, I'd kill a gay man, stone my daughter, and have sex with my sister. Please keep your immoral religion out of my thread please. Furthermore, I've known many christians (even preachers) who have gotten divorced and been very happy with their life.

Red herrings.

Your opinion is noted ... and rejected. Universal rules like that should have no place in the highly complicated matters of relationships. People don't fit into a nice neat little box and only a brainwashed religious buffoon would follow such self-imposed laws without consideration.

Or someone with enough honor to honor a commitment.