RE: Men Women Sex and Temptation
September 12, 2013 at 10:55 am
(This post was last modified: September 12, 2013 at 11:00 am by John V.)
(September 12, 2013 at 9:37 am)Fidel_Castronaut Wrote: That's the worst advice possible for someone to give.I didn't tell him to do this. I told him to stay and commit himself to the relationship.
Staying with a spouse in a relationship that has no love nor commitment will do nothing positive for your children.
Quote:In this instance, much better to seperate and love your kids without the baggage of an unworkable failing relationship than to love them through a front for the sake of appearances.But it's even better to stay together and build a working successful relationship.
(September 12, 2013 at 9:09 am)LastPoet Wrote: So it would be preferable to you that the man that doesn't love his wife anymore (or vice-versa), should remain in the home, with all the attrition that can and surely happen?No, I think he should learn to love his wife, and that attrition isn't a sure thing. People do fix marriages, and the problem put forth in this thread is extremely common. That's why I suggested he list the good things about his wife. It's one way to start changing thought patterns and fix things.
A lot of you are treating a spouse as if it's a used car. It isn't.