Men Women Sex and Temptation

[John V]

That's the worst advice possible for someone to give.

Staying with a spouse in a relationship that has no love nor commitment will do nothing positive for your children.

I didn't tell him to do this. I told him to stay and commit himself to the relationship.

In this instance, much better to seperate and love your kids without the baggage of an unworkable failing relationship than to love them through a front for the sake of appearances.

But it's even better to stay together and build a working successful relationship.

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So it would be preferable to you that the man that doesn't love his wife anymore (or vice-versa), should remain in the home, with all the attrition that can and surely happen?

No, I think he should learn to love his wife, and that attrition isn't a sure thing. People do fix marriages, and the problem put forth in this thread is extremely common. That's why I suggested he list the good things about his wife. It's one way to start changing thought patterns and fix things.

A lot of you are treating a spouse as if it's a used car. It isn't.