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[Fidel_Castronaut]

That's the worst advice possible for someone to give.

Staying with a spouse in a relationship that has no love nor commitment will do nothing positive for your children.

I didn't tell him to do this. I told him to stay and commit himself to the relationship.

In this instance, much better to seperate and love your kids without the baggage of an unworkable failing relationship than to love them through a front for the sake of appearances.

But it's even better to stay together and build a working successful relationship.

It's better to build a relationship that works, for sure, but only if it can work.

Reality shows us that often it doesn't, and can't, no matter how much you put into it. People split up through no fault of their own. It could e that you've grown apart, or the other person has done something that destroys all trust, or whatever. Sometimes it takes a bigger man/woman to admit that and walk away whilst keeping true to the commitments you've formed by when you had a baby. And by that I mean ensuring you're both apart of that child's life to the maximum degree possible. This is much healthier than sticking it out in a household where you and your partner end up building resentment to one another, which will certainly impact on the mental and physical wellbeing of your child.

You can commit yourself to a relationship all you want, but if you're not getting anything back, then you're just deluding yourself into thinking it's working or that you're happy.