(October 16, 2013 at 3:53 pm)John V Wrote:(October 16, 2013 at 3:40 pm)Zazzy Wrote: Humans are animals with sexual needs. And I see no reason for anyone to control sexual urges as long as everybody involved is a consenting adult.I do. I'm married, and I don't think I should have sex with anyone but my wife. Doesn't matter if they're willing.
Well that's your choice John V, most people, even atheists remain monogamous with only one partner. However, if someone else wants to live a different sexual lifestyle, it's a free country and so long, as Zazzy said, all involved are consenting adults...then that's okay.
You wouldn't want anyone in the bedroom with you and your wife saying "No, you can't do it like that because I don't like that."
So long as it's between consenting adults and no one is being physically or emotionally harmed, it's none of yours, or my, or anyone else's business what two (or more) people do with each other.
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~*~Live a good life. If there are Gods and they are just, then they will not care how devout you have been, but will welcome you based on the virtues you have lived by. If there are Gods, but unjust, then you should not want to worship them. If there are no Gods, then you will be gone, but will have lived a noble life that will live on in the memories of your loved ones - Marcus Aurelius~*~