When somebody hurts me I resent it. I get defensive. I might think I will never take them back. Sometimes it would probably be best I didn't take them back... for my own health. Turns out that all they have to do is say they are sorry and then bam! Ivy loves ya. 
I'm trying to learn not to do that.
I mostly try to be reasonable. For example, my parents made many mistakes with us, but their intentions were good. They thought that raising us in church was best. I am thankful that they did what they felt was best. That means they love me. It's like when my son made me a craft flower using some pieces of paper that happened to be important. He meant well. I forgive him, and I'm thankful.

I'm trying to learn not to do that.
I mostly try to be reasonable. For example, my parents made many mistakes with us, but their intentions were good. They thought that raising us in church was best. I am thankful that they did what they felt was best. That means they love me. It's like when my son made me a craft flower using some pieces of paper that happened to be important. He meant well. I forgive him, and I'm thankful.

Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon