why i always ask people for advice

[Angrboda]

Take a year and concentrate on yourself. Take some classes at a community college, learn to play an instrument, go to the gym on a consistent basis, learn an art, etc, etc.

Not only will these improve your own self image, it will help with your girlfriend problems. Women are naturally attracted to independent men with useful skills and interests.

Actually, with me that's usually simply an indicator that I'm storing up meat in preparation for the long winter months ahead.