(November 24, 2013 at 11:23 am)leodeo Wrote: Okay those of you following my dating site adventures, went on date with the girl last night, but we didn't really click.
This new girl started talking to me, and we have TONS in common, and i really like her, we hoping to go out this weekend or the next, but i'm scared because another girl planned to go out last week which we made plans a week in advance, but Idk if its cuz i didnt talk to her enough while waiting for the date, she just stopped talking to me and it didnt work out with her (another girl)
here is our conversation, the blue line are me, the pink lines are her.
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so basically i gave her my # last night, and she said ok....so when should i send her a message again on dating site just to check in on her? or should i just wait for if she sends me a text this weekend for the date? with one girl i felt like i didnt talk to her enough and she thought i wasnt interested or something.
so should i maybe not contact her today, but then send her a message tomorrow to see how she is doing? or maybe the day after and talk to her every other day or every 2 days until we meet? or everyday?
im kinda scared cuz this girl is pretty, pretty - and she online a lot so scared she will someone betterbut overall we click a lot I think.
thanks
You should never bother giving your number out to girls, the majority of them never ever make the first move and enjoy having the first move being made on them, them having your number is pointless. You should be using the dating sites to get their numbers.
The best way to make idle talk and wait for the date is probably to send whatsapp messages or txt every now and then and possibly a few phone calls but not too many.
You're the one who has to make the first phone call, decide where to go how to get there think of all the topics of convo and make all the jokes.
This is just an observation of the majority of the situations I've been in and there have been exceptions to these rules.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
