I only tell my closest friends about my sexuality, because I have seen how bi-sexuals are seen. Call us sluts, attention whores, greedy, you name it. I have also been accused of making it up just to fit in a trend. To all of this I say, "FUCK YOU, BITCH."
My first crush ever was a girl and a spent my whole adolescence asking the god for forgiveness for what I was, and asking him to change me. When I had my first experience with a woman, I knew I would never be changed. This is who I am. I'd say I'm sorry, but fuck you and I can't be sorry for something I didn't choose anyway. If I did choose it, I'd still not be sorry.
I did find myself having to stick to one side by eras, per se. It was easier. When I was in my first stable relationship with a woman, people started saying I had "turned lesbian". I didn't mind it, because I was with her and she meant everything, and I wasn't thinking of being with anybody else anyway. Once that was over, it was just easier to stick to girls.
Then I got married and was with the guy for almost 8 years. During the time if conversations came up about sexuality, I preferred not to say I am bi, because people would not believe me. They'd think it was a cry for attention. Well, not just think it. I dared once to stand up for someone and say I was bisexual, and one of my male friends said, "Only until a man notices, huh?" Fuck you. I actually did tell him to fuck off.
So what if a person likes both? I stand for equality and am very animate about promoting it. Why don't I get the same treatment? If I like both boneless and regular chicken wings, does the fact that I order one mean that I made up the fact that I like both? Does it mean I am not capable of having one at a time? Does it mean that I will have it for lunch every day, any time, anywhere? Oh wait...
Anyway... I just feel that... fuck bigots.
Edit: Made a spelling edit, and will do no more. Too lazy right now.
... I only tell... but I don't hide it either. After all my back tattoo is about equality.
