Right, you're going to have to do this if you want to live happily with your family, eh?
Here's what I would suggest. Evidence: use bible verses and personal experiences. So say you experienced something and you think it's god interfering, then certain bible verses show that you're right, god does do these things. Or the other way around, you read this in the bible, not quite sure what it meant, then personal experience!!!! Now you've got it! I mean if you claim to have a dream and that it's from god, no one in the church will tell you you're delusional. That's basically how Revelations was written.

Good luck
Here's what I would suggest. Evidence: use bible verses and personal experiences. So say you experienced something and you think it's god interfering, then certain bible verses show that you're right, god does do these things. Or the other way around, you read this in the bible, not quite sure what it meant, then personal experience!!!! Now you've got it! I mean if you claim to have a dream and that it's from god, no one in the church will tell you you're delusional. That's basically how Revelations was written.

Good luck