What do you call a non follower of neither atheism or theism

[Esquilax]

I just don't want it as a label, its identity theft, i love my name
Just as i love each of the names and meanings of others

Sure, I get that, but you understand that we use words to describe people, beyond just their names, right?

Frankly, this A/Theism thing is merely a label that describes your position on this single issue, and as such is a part of a much larger description of what makes you, you.

If you don't want to use the word, whatever. I ain't gonna force it on you. But we do use it for a reason.