(February 19, 2014 at 11:07 pm)Alice Wrote: Value is subjective.That's right.
Quote:People can choose to not be victimized by past events? This is news to me. Please explain this magical process to me.It's not a magical process. It's a psychological process, based on the interaction between a person's world view, their experiences, and their sense of self. It involves getting down to the core beliefs that cause cognitive dissonance, and being able to re-evaluate the meaning of events that challenge them.
By the way, by "choose," I don't imply any failure in someone who continues to suffer. I'm saying that so long as a person can think about, and redefine, their values and interpretations, they have a chance to reduce that suffering greatly.