Can't seem to let go

[chris]

I used to be a Christian until I came accross a Jewish site which convinced me that Christianity is false. Now, I would consider myself an agnostic, but I feel like I should follow a religion simply to avoid a bad afterlife. I know this sounds cowardly and that there are so many choices, but I grew up believing in a burning hell and I find the idea of this terrifying.

But I don't think I can follow a religion that condemns people for their beleifs, sexuality, race etc and this is one reason why I haven't followed a religion yet. There are a few reasons, but fear keeps me in this sort of limbo.

How can I let go of religion?

Hello Sunflash and welcome.

I was braught up a Roman Catholic and even went to a RC School.

The only thing I can suggest is to read up on (I'm also including watching documentaries and any other way to aquire information) a wide range of subjects looking at both the supporters and detractors arguament, but the important part is to question everything you come accross, be it religion, politics, science or anything else. Don't be afraid to read something you think you'll disagree with and try and keep an open mind and if you agree or disagree with something, ask yourself why.

Hope this helps

Chris