(March 23, 2014 at 10:30 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote:(March 23, 2014 at 10:19 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: I think this is partially enforced by society. I could "crank one out in the kitchen" too, and I know guys who really like moods set to a nicety. It's just not "girly" to be like the former or "manly" to be like the latter.
Really? I don't know. I mean sex is definitely better when there is a mood, when I feel connected, when I feel one with my partner. I guess in that sense men and women are similar. But I don't need it. Most of the women I've talked to about masturbating say they need the right music, the right lighting, the right mood in order to accomplish the task. I need no such thing. I need my hand and a sock.
I don't mean to extrapolate my experience to everyone's, of course this is not a rule. But I do think it speaks for the majority.
No, not all women are alike. lol Sometimes, we just want sex...carnal pleasure, just like men. And I know men who have to be in relationships before having sex.
Guess everyone is different.
I will say this. If I'm angry with someone, then I can't. lol