(June 15, 2014 at 7:31 pm)JBrown1597 Wrote: Alright so I need some ideas. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and she was raised going to a Catholic private school up until high school. (Brainwashed.) She has recently become more open to the idea that Christianity is ridiculous, contradictory, etc. etc. My issue, is that of course she feels having sex is 'not doing the right thing.' She literally does everything in the book, but thinks if she has sex shes doing some evil wrongdoing or some bullshit like that. Its ridiculous, because I know she's ready to have sex, she talks about it all the time, but her brainwashing is getting in the way and it's kind of annoying. Any ideas to change her mind or at least get through to her that it makes no sense God would give a damn if she has sex before marriage? Thanks.
You sound young. Believe me fucking is fun, and the "save it for marriage" crap is that. Now having said that. It still remains that if you are not ready for a kid, the only safe way to avoid that is to not stick your dick in her vagina, condoms break.
Hormones are evil. Not in a biblical sense, just that when you are young you want to fuck everything in sight. You are not proving your love for her or her you, by making sex the litmus test.
Don't let your emotions or your hormones dictate to you. It isn't a matter of "saving yourselves", but you also do not want to end up with disease or an unwanted pregnancy neither of you can afford.
Bottom line, think with your head, not your dick.
