(June 15, 2014 at 10:01 pm)Lek Wrote:(June 15, 2014 at 7:31 pm)JBrown1597 Wrote: Alright so I need some ideas. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and she was raised going to a Catholic private school up until high school. (Brainwashed.) She has recently become more open to the idea that Christianity is ridiculous, contradictory, etc. etc. My issue, is that of course she feels having sex is 'not doing the right thing.' She literally does everything in the book, but thinks if she has sex shes doing some evil wrongdoing or some bullshit like that. Its ridiculous, because I know she's ready to have sex, she talks about it all the time, but her brainwashing is getting in the way and it's kind of annoying. Any ideas to change her mind or at least get through to her that it makes no sense God would give a damn if she has sex before marriage? Thanks.
God does care if she has sex before marriage. Do you love her or care about her? If so, why are you trying to get her to go against her conscience? I'd advise you to take her as she is or let her go and find a woman who will have sex with you.
God isn't there to care. But the question as a mother of girls I would ask is do you want to be a good memory or a bad memory. The kind of person you will grow up to be is at stake. And there is no god to forgive you.
If there is a god, I want to believe that there is a god. If there is not a god, I want to believe that there is no god.
