I don't think I'd use it with Grampa, but we lost pets during the girls' toddler years. I explained that they were "all gone" like crackers all eaten, and toys broken, but that unlike the crackers they would live on as long as we remembered them.
By the time the family dog died they were just preteen, and the exact truth was easy, especially since the dog had congestive heart failure so we had lots of notice the end was near.
By the time the family dog died they were just preteen, and the exact truth was easy, especially since the dog had congestive heart failure so we had lots of notice the end was near.
If there is a god, I want to believe that there is a god. If there is not a god, I want to believe that there is no god.