(July 8, 2014 at 2:48 pm)ShaMan Wrote:(July 8, 2014 at 2:43 pm)Losty Wrote: some people find the idea of monogamy to be....boring.Wow! It's many things, but never boring.
Maybe everyone isn't as lucky to have such an exciting monogamous sex life as you? I would say many people find monogamous relationships to eventually become dull if they don't actively try to keep it exciting.
Quote:Losty Wrote:I think it can be a healthy way to keep the spice in a relationship if both partners are into it.I think it would require all consenting parties to have a depth of emotional maturity that would sustain their respective marriages in the environment of extramarital activities.
Absolutely. A lack of maturity in any of the people involved could end up hurting both marriages.
I personally would not be a swinger, but it's because I don't plan to get married ever again.
