I share the same view as you, call me old fashioned but I like being like this. My mother taught me to be a gentleman to the ladies, they didn't appreciate it much when I was a teen (because those actions are seen as old fashioned and teens like modern stuff), but now it sure works with my girlfriend, she loves it. stick to your values
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you