@tav- Thanks but I came here fully aware that there were atheists that weren't going to welcome an open discussion, or at least one not tainted with distain. She's fully entitled to her opinion and I'll address her "points" now that I have time.
2-A much as you'd like to believe is, I don't live in fear of my wife leaving me. I was simply restating words she's shared with me about our love. I don't not cheat on my wife because if I did she'd leave me, I don't cheat on my wife because I love her more than any woman beside my mother. In fact I like to keep a healthy dose of change and spontenaity in my life to avert living in fear and trepidation. I've tried living in fear and hopelessness, and it's not to my liking. That's not to say I don't have fears, just that I don't let them control my life.
3-You try and come off as absent from emotion yet spit bile like a cobra at the drop of a sentence. I don't need the love of a sky daddy, but I 'm happy to recieve it where I see it. Nor do I let the want of love or the fear of loss rule anything in my life. I can certainly stand on my own, and am aware that tomorrow it could all be gone. I'm quite fine with that, I'd miss those I care deeply about but we have lived a strong love and lived a good life.
4-Seeing as somewhere you've said you have kids I'm surprised you would go so far as to attack my parenting and my children. I teach my children that people who spew hatred and dissent out of there mouth aren't conducive to living a happy and harmonious life, but they are a part of it. I also teach them that everyone's entitled to an opinion, even if that means their opinion is mallicious and hurtfull, just not to take it personal. I've gotten into this once before with you. You're obviously just trying to goad me into a fight or to leave. While attacking my family was a much beter attempt than attacking my own intestinal fortitude, you'll have to ask me to leave if that's your intent. I'll stop there.
1- I'm farmiliar with universalism. Most non-denominational churches I've been to have a watered down version of universalism. Usually all of the tenants except universal reconciliation are accepted.
2-Perhaps mercurial has too strong of a connotation to use effectively here. I love my wife with all my heart and couldn't think of any reasonable reason to leave her. However I can't say that I would never leave her. If she attempted to kill my kids and I I would probably leave, get her help and even may still love here if only slightly less. My point in the use of mercurial was that emotions are based off of very subjective perceptions and therefore mutable. Some emotions change quickly and some people love for a lifetime. Yes, that also includes my love for God. I'm speaking of the characteristic of god's love and yes I feel that's immutable from our perspective.
3-Time, ok.. God is outside time. His actions where they interact in this universe are then perceptable to us and therefore exist in that instant and therefore in spacetime. Is that clearer? God's love would be eternal, but our perception of that love can only exist as long as we can perceive.
4-If I misinterpreted your words then I apologize. You stated that I should appreciate you live in a state of seperation from God. That requires that a) you have an idea of God's existence and b) you actively choose to live seperate from that concept. To me I read that as you understand the existence of God and then actively choose to seperate yourself from that. I hold no conspiracy theories as to atheist plots and such. This was simply how I interpreted your stance and only related to you and not athesits in general. If it was wrong I think you've clarified that and it serves no purpose to continue going over it again.
5- "According to what Christians profess you're judged on what faith/works you accomplish in this life" That's only for your heavenly rewards. You're talking about either getting into heaven or stuck in hell. That's not based on works, and thats conerstone to Christianity.
6-You think I deserve to be forcibly brought back to life by your God-concept only to suffer a no-doubt fairly violent second death? No, nor did I ever state that. If you don't have a second life through Christ, then I don't see him bringing you back from oblivion just to sent you back.
If you were just being kind about it I do apologize, I was in quite a bit of pain and I expect attacks when I'm here. I do not fast typically. No would I ever do so to the detriment of my health.
@PR- I do agre that parenting has a social aspect to it where other parents should be looking out for all children. I feel that same protecting insticnton the playground watching other kids. However, with KN's track record I feel it was more a personal attack than actual concern, which I believe was the point.
(June 26, 2010 at 4:11 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote:1-I love change, it's an integral part of life and it adds flavor to the humdrum. I was speaking of her becoming the complete opposite of who I married. I welcome her to change and better herself, just as she has made me better. We're about to celebrate our anniversary and just yesterday we celebrated how much we've changed and grown together and as individuals.
2-A much as you'd like to believe is, I don't live in fear of my wife leaving me. I was simply restating words she's shared with me about our love. I don't not cheat on my wife because if I did she'd leave me, I don't cheat on my wife because I love her more than any woman beside my mother. In fact I like to keep a healthy dose of change and spontenaity in my life to avert living in fear and trepidation. I've tried living in fear and hopelessness, and it's not to my liking. That's not to say I don't have fears, just that I don't let them control my life.
3-You try and come off as absent from emotion yet spit bile like a cobra at the drop of a sentence. I don't need the love of a sky daddy, but I 'm happy to recieve it where I see it. Nor do I let the want of love or the fear of loss rule anything in my life. I can certainly stand on my own, and am aware that tomorrow it could all be gone. I'm quite fine with that, I'd miss those I care deeply about but we have lived a strong love and lived a good life.
4-Seeing as somewhere you've said you have kids I'm surprised you would go so far as to attack my parenting and my children. I teach my children that people who spew hatred and dissent out of there mouth aren't conducive to living a happy and harmonious life, but they are a part of it. I also teach them that everyone's entitled to an opinion, even if that means their opinion is mallicious and hurtfull, just not to take it personal. I've gotten into this once before with you. You're obviously just trying to goad me into a fight or to leave. While attacking my family was a much beter attempt than attacking my own intestinal fortitude, you'll have to ask me to leave if that's your intent. I'll stop there.
(June 27, 2010 at 4:56 pm)Welsh cake Wrote:
1- I'm farmiliar with universalism. Most non-denominational churches I've been to have a watered down version of universalism. Usually all of the tenants except universal reconciliation are accepted.
2-Perhaps mercurial has too strong of a connotation to use effectively here. I love my wife with all my heart and couldn't think of any reasonable reason to leave her. However I can't say that I would never leave her. If she attempted to kill my kids and I I would probably leave, get her help and even may still love here if only slightly less. My point in the use of mercurial was that emotions are based off of very subjective perceptions and therefore mutable. Some emotions change quickly and some people love for a lifetime. Yes, that also includes my love for God. I'm speaking of the characteristic of god's love and yes I feel that's immutable from our perspective.
3-Time, ok.. God is outside time. His actions where they interact in this universe are then perceptable to us and therefore exist in that instant and therefore in spacetime. Is that clearer? God's love would be eternal, but our perception of that love can only exist as long as we can perceive.
4-If I misinterpreted your words then I apologize. You stated that I should appreciate you live in a state of seperation from God. That requires that a) you have an idea of God's existence and b) you actively choose to live seperate from that concept. To me I read that as you understand the existence of God and then actively choose to seperate yourself from that. I hold no conspiracy theories as to atheist plots and such. This was simply how I interpreted your stance and only related to you and not athesits in general. If it was wrong I think you've clarified that and it serves no purpose to continue going over it again.
5- "According to what Christians profess you're judged on what faith/works you accomplish in this life" That's only for your heavenly rewards. You're talking about either getting into heaven or stuck in hell. That's not based on works, and thats conerstone to Christianity.
6-You think I deserve to be forcibly brought back to life by your God-concept only to suffer a no-doubt fairly violent second death? No, nor did I ever state that. If you don't have a second life through Christ, then I don't see him bringing you back from oblivion just to sent you back.
If you were just being kind about it I do apologize, I was in quite a bit of pain and I expect attacks when I'm here. I do not fast typically. No would I ever do so to the detriment of my health.
@PR- I do agre that parenting has a social aspect to it where other parents should be looking out for all children. I feel that same protecting insticnton the playground watching other kids. However, with KN's track record I feel it was more a personal attack than actual concern, which I believe was the point.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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