Differing degrees of rape?

[lifesagift]

so is the converse not true also?

I'm just saying that even if it's a fact that they enjoyed part of it, there was more harm done than good. In the long run, drug addiction and repeated rape will destroy someone, even if there's a moment of bliss in there too.

But my OP point is that there are differing degrees of rape.. so if a loving girlfriend is simply(used descriptively) penetrated by her gorgeous randy boyfriend, for 15 seconds whilst she's asleep or drunk, and didn't want sex.... that is an equal crime to a really big, aggressive man, who has a knife and drags a girl into a shed and has full sex with her three times whist waving the knife around her face....????