(October 18, 2014 at 6:42 pm)lifesagift Wrote:(October 18, 2014 at 5:58 pm)Jenny A Wrote:Great reply thanks.
I'm in the UK and thinking about a pro footballer who had a smitten, drunken fan in a hotel room.
It's interesting that you mention that the suffering of the victim might be important, because that suggests, potentially the sentencing is on it's head.... what if the abducted rape victim who's been raped for 20 years by her abductor, might actually enjoy some of the sex?
(don't beat me up, I'm pushing boundaries and playing devils advocate in a greatly interesting thread, I'm still on your side on the whole!)
I'm not sure what side you think I'm on. I do think that circumstances should matter is sentencing and it's not unreasonable to differentiate between rape by coercion, rape by force, and rape with a deadly weapon provided they all carry reasonable sentences. Murder comes in various degrees for the same reasons.
But for this: "what if the abducted rape victim who's been raped for 20 years by her abductor, might actually enjoy some of the sex" I might like to slap you around a little. Would it matter if you're the kind of guy who likes getting slapped by a woman? Presuming of course that you didn't consent before hand?
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