Differing degrees of rape?

[Jenny A]

"Lets flip the lid so to speak. If a girl starts sucking off a boy thats asleep or drunk, is she a rapist to the same extent if the roles are reversed?"

There's no "to some extent" sex without consent is rape. Period.

OK then, so does the rape act against a man repulse you to the same extent?

Would a woman face the same punishment as a man? Should she?

Does the opinion of men as a separate sex hold any sway? Meaning, if a woman broke into my house and raped me I would feel icky maybe, but I would probably be more furious with her presence than her sex act. I certainly in good conscious wouldn't feel justice would be served if her life was ruined for the act. Certainly not for a long prison sentence.

Why would men be so much more compassionate over a physical sexual intrusion than women?

Interesting question if you really feel that way about a women raping you. Would it matter if:

1) She used a dildo for penetration;

2) You were likely to get pregnant (yes this requires imagination);

3) If the sex were really, really unwanted. So in your case, let's imagine a male rapist.

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i won't lie -- waking up to a woman sucking me off was a wonderful experience.

Perhaps I didn't feel violated because she read my mind?

I too have problems with the no pre-sleep consent to sex begun during sleep. But I'd like to choose the man. There is a guy who has that consent, though if I woke up in terror I haven't a doubt he'd stop. Waking up to a man I didn't and never wanted would be a nightmare.