(October 18, 2014 at 11:59 pm)Jenny A Wrote: I too have problems with the no pre-sleep consent to sex begun during sleep. But I'd like to choose the man. There is a guy who has that consent, though if I woke up in terror I haven't a doubt he'd stop. Waking up to a man I didn't and never wanted would be a nightmare.
I get what you're saying. I suppose part of my own thinking about this is that as a man, I feel more powerful and in control and so if the woman woke me up that way and I didn't want her attentions, I'd feel able to address the matter.
I'm not making the mistake of assuming that any woman should think as I do, just pondering the differences in gender that are arising in this thread. Learning something about myself as I do, I think.
