If you didn't feel violated good for you. Doesn't mean that men don't feel violated by rape. Had I never been through the things I've been through, I probably wouldn't have felt violated in your situation either. The problem with the way you phrase things is that talk like that makes some men feel like feeling violated by rape makes them less of a man.
If you honestly don't think that this is a real issue, that there aren't many men who have been raped and have felt violated and been too ashamed to report it, I feel like you must be living under a rock.
If you honestly don't think that this is a real issue, that there aren't many men who have been raped and have felt violated and been too ashamed to report it, I feel like you must be living under a rock.