Differing degrees of rape?

[Brakeman]

Interesting question if you really feel that way about a women raping you. Would it matter if:

1) She used a dildo for penetration;

2) You were likely to get pregnant (yes this requires imagination);

3) If the sex were really, really unwanted. So in your case, let's imagine a male rapist.

If she had used a strap on, I dunno, maybe a little. Not much if it weren't painful, Icky is icky.. It only happed a few seconds because I yelled out to other people in the room who then turned on the light.

I was a bit afraid of catching something .. but not pregnant so no, I wouldn't think a male rape in this case is very comparable to a female rape. That was kinda my point. I wouldn't feel penetrated or have a fear of pregnancy if a woman raped me orally. I'm saying I don't think they are comparable from my male point of view. If it had been a homosexual rape by a man, yes, I do think that would have bothered me more. But again, this is the variance in victim impact we are talking about. I was sexually assaulted by a girl and it had little to no victim impact on me and this very idea seems to cause the chivalrous knights of the forum to have a meltdown.

The sex was really unwanted and unexpected. It only lasted a few moments until I woke up and cleared my head as to what was happening. I screamed. So no, definitely not wanted. I never talked to her except she said a meek sorry as she left to go down the steps.

If she ever reads this I'm sure she would be embarrassed, but I don't hold her any grudge anymore. Really none at all.

My "rape" experience can't be translated to women's rape can it? If I imagine a girl waking up to a stranger sucking on her clit, I can't see it having as little overall effect as it did with me. I ask myself why not. I'm not a woman so perhaps you could enlighten?