(October 21, 2014 at 5:29 pm)Jenny A Wrote:(October 21, 2014 at 5:27 pm)Losty Wrote: If that's the kind of sex you enjoy, both partners should be demanding a way to know 100% for certain when the submissive partner actually wants the dominant partner to stop. Anything else is completely irresponsible.
We call it the "safe word."
Ours is a cute pretty word that is obviously not sexual and cannot be mistaken for sexy talk. If someone doesn't want a safeword, they still need to find a responsible way to communicate when no means yes and when it actually means no.
