RE: Alcoholics Anonymous and Drug Addiction
October 23, 2014 at 5:27 pm
(This post was last modified: October 23, 2014 at 5:44 pm by AceBoogie.)
(October 23, 2014 at 11:19 am)Aractus Wrote:Yes AA obviously does work for some people. I don't think there's any disagreement there not sure what you're getting at.(October 23, 2014 at 9:46 am)smithers Wrote: I do not disagree with that. I am simply saying that atheist or theist, many people HAVE found some merit in AA. It seems to have some merit to me. With that being said I agree that it is a deeply flawed program. Really the only parts of AA I agree with are the 'fellowship,' aka building a support group, and helping other addicts, doing the right thing, etc. Having people who share the same problem with you to talk about that problem is therapeutic and doing the right thing or helping other people will make you feel better about yourself which may possibly keep you from wanting to destroy yourself further.I think what you're saying is that there is some aspects to the 12-step program that some AA members find helpful in staying sober. This is obviously true or there wouldn't be anyone who'd say AA worked for them.
Other than that I feel confident making the generalization that mostly everything else they claim is complete bullshit.
But as I said before, it's approach as a "disease" rather than an "addiction" can well be called into question.
Also group therapy is not always the best. Did you know that anorexics for instance usually face group-based intervention programs; but some researchers are finding that individual in-home (i.e. not institutional) therapy is more effective in treating the disorder. And it is a recognised disease.
And I'm not sure where I stand on the disease thing. Is being a bad driver a disease simply because you have learned certain behaviors and that certain 'symptoms' can be found in all those that drive poorly? I don't know about that.
I suppose whether or not group therapy is effective for someone is up to that individual. Everyone is different.
And Dorian I see where you're coming from and I suppose it is all dependent upon what is important to the individual. If someone finds a group therapy/meeting type setting for them to be cathartic or therapeutic they have that available in AA. I know some atheists, as I've said, that have made AA work for them with absolutely no issue. But I suppose that also depends on the individual.
(October 23, 2014 at 8:35 am)Lao Shizi Wrote: AA clearly states that you should "take what you need, and leave the rest."
AA also clearly states that you need to turn yourself over entirely to their simple program, which doesn't quite match up with 'take what you need and leave the rest.'
There are many more contradictory ideas in AA and in the Big Book and it's a little silly how obvious that is to everyone except people in AA. Like I said it obviously serves some purpose because there is SOMETHING working for some people that are able to stay sober using AA, but I would argue that having a support group and helping other people more than anything, is what helps people stay sober, regardless of the steps.
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It is the air and light of every heart – builder of every home, kindler of every fire on every hearth. It was the first to dream of immortality. It fills the world with melody – for music is the voice of love.
Love is the magician, the enchanter, that changes worthless things to Joy, and makes royal kings and queens of common clay. It is the perfume of that wondrous flower, the heart, and without that sacred passion, that divine swoon, we are less than beasts; but with it, earth is heaven, and we are gods.” - Robert. G. Ingersoll