girlish girls, manly men.

[paulpablo]

Alright, just another random thought and this is as good a place as any to type it out since I feel like doing and seeing if anyone else can relate to what I'm on about.

I like girlish girls.
BUT
at the same time I hate some typical girlish things girls do.

At the top of the list, because it's what inspired this thread to begin with, is the use of motivational sentimental quotes.

Time and time again on any basically any computer or phone thing where statuses can be typed out (whatsapp, camfrog, blackberry messenger) I see girls with over sentimental, sickening, corny messages like the following

I miss you. Not in some cheesy, let's hold hands and be together forever way. I just miss you. Plain and simple. I miss your presence in my life. I miss you always being there

And

if someone wants to be a part of you're life they'll make an effort to be in it. So don't reserve a place for people who don't want to stay

I just had to wipe the bits of sick off my keyboard after searching and copying and pasting those.

But at the same time I'm kind of torn apart, because I love that type of girlish behavior in a way, it's so much the opposite of how I am.

Also when a girl is being so indecisive, I've encountered it sometimes where I'm not even sure if it's a girls way of flirting and acting overly girlish. Part of me hates it because I'm thinking "WHAT THE FUCK JUST DECIDE!!!!!!" but more of me loves it because it's a bit like she's doing it in order to let me decide.

I don't know if I'm describing this aswell as I could be doing or if anyone will really get what I mean.
I'd be interested to know if there's any women that feel this way about men, like you hate a typical manly trait, but at the same time you like it.

Anyway I need to make a big disclaimer. Before anyone says anything I'm not saying being indecisive and sickeningly sentimental is always a female trait.