girlish girls, manly men.

[John V]

Working out perfectly for me.

I'm a happy, single woman whose last relationship was with someone who is in the same profession as me. Both of us are type A personalities and we both tried to be the "dominant". We reached a compromise that worked out perfectly for us both.

Considering the past tense, I'd guess that the compromise didn't work out as well as you claim.

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My wife is in charge because I am crap at everything.

This creates a spiral. You'll continue to be crap at everything because your wife is in charge. Man up before she starts looking elsewhere.