Mem,if I met you,your preferences wouldn't matter to me. Why do you think that they would just because I don't like it? I don't see why some people can't agree to disagree without necessarily disliking each other.Me not liking homosexuality just means that it doesn't fit with my preference,and if any judgment is being made it is one of preference,not if it's right or wrong.
You being nice or not nice is separate from you doing whatever it is that you do. I judge what you do as something that I dislike,and you probably do many more things that I dislike and I probably do things that you dislike.But that's not the point. No one has to like another person's habits or preferences or tastes.The person above who said that disliking it is making a judgment is correct, I judge it as not being for me, and asthetically I find it displeasing.I don't understand why they tried to make me out to be homophobic.But if homophobic means fear of gays,I'm not scared.If it means hating gays, I don't hate them.If it means not liking it, then ok I am homophobic.I am also british weather phobic.
You being nice or not nice is separate from you doing whatever it is that you do. I judge what you do as something that I dislike,and you probably do many more things that I dislike and I probably do things that you dislike.But that's not the point. No one has to like another person's habits or preferences or tastes.The person above who said that disliking it is making a judgment is correct, I judge it as not being for me, and asthetically I find it displeasing.I don't understand why they tried to make me out to be homophobic.But if homophobic means fear of gays,I'm not scared.If it means hating gays, I don't hate them.If it means not liking it, then ok I am homophobic.I am also british weather phobic.
