RE: Creed's Corner: A Collection of the Morbid, Mysterious, and Mrandom
April 2, 2015 at 9:28 am
(This post was last modified: April 2, 2015 at 9:29 am by SteelCurtain.)
(April 2, 2015 at 8:49 am)alpha male Wrote:No, I don't. I don't think that what a person is (by that I mean what their interests are, who they like, how they see themselves, how they dress/wear their hair) can't be changed. I just don't think it should be changed for the sole purpose of being more attractive to a certain type of people if those people aren't going to align to his interests and desires. If there are other reasons, then fine. If by learning new skills a person's interests change as well, good.(April 2, 2015 at 8:32 am)SteelCurtain Wrote: Fuck every last bit of what alpha male said. If you try to attract women by being something you're not, happiness will not ensue.This is a major difference between me and many others here. You seem to think that what a person is is something carved in stone. I see people as able to learn and change. You do to, actually: "This isn't a knowledge you cannot grasp, it's a skill you haven't practiced." If you really believed the "being something you're not" bit, you wouldn't make such a suggestion. But really you know that a person lacking empathy can practice and learn empathy, and become a person with empathy. They're not trying to attract others by being something they're not. They're changing who they are, and for the better. Same with the suggestions I'm making. Getting into an exercise routine isn't being something that you're not, it's changing who you are.
(April 2, 2015 at 8:43 am)FatAndFaithless Wrote: It's a good thing for you alpha that being a gargantuan sexist asshole isn't against the rules on this forum.
Good thing for you that being a giant whining vagina isn't against the rules.
Creed has a wonderful personality and a unique character. From what he's posted, he's having trouble connecting with the people in his life. Cutting his hair and dressing differently so that you approve isn't going to help that.
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