RE: Creed's Corner: A Collection of the Morbid, Mysterious, and Mrandom
April 2, 2015 at 9:49 am
(April 2, 2015 at 9:28 am)SteelCurtain Wrote: No, I don't. I don't think that what a person is (by that I mean what their interests are, who they like, how they see themselves, how they dress/wear their hair) can't be changed. I just don't think it should be changed for the sole purpose of being more attractive to a certain type of people if those people aren't going to align to his interests and desires.What if he never bathed, and that limited the women who were attracted to him? Would you make the same argument, or tell him to take a f---ing shower in order to expand the pool of potential mates?
When you're young and from a troubled background, dressing in black and going to cemeteries might seem cool to some people, and at least understandable to others. When you're 27 and haven't had a relationship last more than three months in the past ten years, it's time for an overhaul.
Quote:Creed has a wonderful personality and a unique character.That have left him unhappy. It may have served him for awhile, but it's time for a change. That's how it always is on this forum. Someone says their life sucks. One or two people tell them to change. Others jump in saying that you can't/shouldn't change who you are. It's ridiculous.
