RE: Creed's Corner: A Collection of the Morbid, Mysterious, and Mrandom
April 2, 2015 at 11:00 am
(April 2, 2015 at 10:35 am)alpha male Wrote:(April 2, 2015 at 10:26 am)Creed of Heresy Wrote: Translation: "I don't actually care, I'm right you're wrong I have no intention of actually considering the point of view of another human being."I do care, and I have considered other points of view. But, yeah, I think that I'm right and you/they are wrong. The results speak for themselves. If you don't make changes, things aren't likely to change. I would hate to see you go on like this for another ten years.
Quote:Fucking hell you're a loathsome little shit, aren't you? I may not be happy but at least I can find comfort in the fact I have friends and people who care about me.Enable you is more like it.
Quote:Given how much of a prick you are and given the shit you say, something tells me that maybe you're jealous of the support people give me and we give each other. I wonder why you would be so jealous... Well, the same reason anyone is jealous of something or someone.I have exactly what you want - a deep relationship with a woman. Been married 24 years. I have no need for support from people on the internet. I get support from real people.
Because we have something you totally lack, perhaps?
If you'd actually read the post that you tildered, you'd actually have read that I have attempted those changes. I actually have, at no point thus far, stated that I've never tried any of those suggestions. As I said in that post, I have. And what the results were. And why they either failed or have no present effect on the situation. That is why you have what I want, and why I don't have that; because the answer is not as simple as you think it is. I don't quite know what you mean by "real people," as I am pretty sure the people who have responded are flesh-and-blood human beings, but it is both online and offline equally that I have support from others. They do not enable me. If you had read the post, you would understand why that is the case. Maybe. Or maybe that is too optimistic a statement to make.
Changing who I am is not a matter of thought, or perception. It's a matter of understanding. That is why I said that no matter what people say, they never really understand.
It's not a one-sided affair.