I didn't read the whole thread before commenting, my apologies.
First, I'm sorry you are having these issues, relationship issues are some of the most difficult.
Second, her past does not = her future. My husband had quite a past, both sexually and with drugs, but he isn't the same person he was back then. Are any of us? If you think she is faithful to you NOW, what does her past matter? Porn stars can and have stopped and become faithful wives and mothers.
On the other hand, if you think she is still like this, that she has been unfaithful to you, then do what you have to do. But you say you've been together 3 years? Has she cheated on you, that you are aware of, in that time?
However, if you are simply bothered by the fact that she used to be more promiscuous than you are comfortable with and nothing will make you more comfortable with her past, it would be best to end it I think. Otherwise it's you that is shining her on. After all, she was honest with you about her past....(eventually).
First, I'm sorry you are having these issues, relationship issues are some of the most difficult.
Second, her past does not = her future. My husband had quite a past, both sexually and with drugs, but he isn't the same person he was back then. Are any of us? If you think she is faithful to you NOW, what does her past matter? Porn stars can and have stopped and become faithful wives and mothers.
On the other hand, if you think she is still like this, that she has been unfaithful to you, then do what you have to do. But you say you've been together 3 years? Has she cheated on you, that you are aware of, in that time?
However, if you are simply bothered by the fact that she used to be more promiscuous than you are comfortable with and nothing will make you more comfortable with her past, it would be best to end it I think. Otherwise it's you that is shining her on. After all, she was honest with you about her past....(eventually).
“Eternity is a terrible thought. I mean, where's it going to end?”
― Tom Stoppard, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead
― Tom Stoppard, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead
