Being gay is a fetish.

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I'm sure it was just a misunderstanding emjay, not that you offended me, you didn't. It happens very easily on the Internet, especially with the odd mode of communication of a forum

It is true that someone who is bi has a choice how they will act on it. Everyone has a choice on how they act on their sexuality, but it's going to be an awful lot harder for a gay/straight person to assume the opposite position. The fact that such bigotry as we've seen on the forum pressures some people into doing this makes me sick. I had hoped civilisation had moved beyond such bullshit by now.

I find it interesting you preferred to live a gay life rather than straight, and as you said it totally blows out the water various wild claims than have been thrown about.