RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 20, 2015 at 2:37 pm
(This post was last modified: April 20, 2015 at 2:39 pm by MJ the Skeptical.)
(April 20, 2015 at 2:30 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: Wow. I was really too fucking kind to you in the other thread. I hope this is just your severe anxiety talking.
1) We only got one side of the story from what appears to be a troll post. He could be saying all kinds of shit about her that isn't true.
2) No one is necessarily judging him for preferences - we're judging someone (giving this troll the benefit of the doubt) for having been with her for three years without discussing it if it was that fucking important. I hope you understand why it begins to seem more like penis envy than anything else.
3) If you have to ask why talking about someone in intimate ways without their consent is probably wrong, then we need to have a completely separate thread about consent.
4) You're over-reacting because you happen to align with this person's views out of what I perceive to be your own insecurities, and not out of any real logic, so yeah, people are going to give you shit about it.
What does a different thread have to do with this one? but thanks for exploiting my anxiety issues from another thread, douche alert...
1) I agree, but why can't he have his preference?
2) Sometimes this stuff never comes up, ya know? And if this is a troll post, then who cares right? if it's fake it's fake.
3) Comparing sexual consent to speaking about your relationships is a slippery slope, at worst...
4) I don't align with them, I just happen to think he should have his preferences without prejudice, like you people are saying about the girl how she should be able to fuck who she wants to, which I agree with, but you should also agree that he should have the right to not like that, even if it was never discussed. You can argue whether he should tell his story but if a girl tells the exact same story are you just as outraged? try and pretend you would be, cmon...
If the hypothetical idea of an afterlife means more to you than the objectively true reality we all share, then you deserve no respect.