RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 20, 2015 at 3:18 pm
(This post was last modified: April 20, 2015 at 3:19 pm by MJ the Skeptical.)
(April 20, 2015 at 3:09 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: 1) Actually, I didn't say anything about experience. I didn't come onto this thread until I had interacted with you.
2) Just because something is the way it is in reality doesn't mean it shouldn't be changed. "Reality checking" me is unnecessary. Racial prejudice is reality. Does that mean we shouldn't try to move past it? We should just let things go because there's a stigma about talking about race? Get fucking real.
3) Consent isn't limited to whether or not you agreed to have sex with someone in a particular situation. Suppose the troll and girlfriend are real - suppose the girlfriend assumed those would be private conversations and now the boyfriend is spreading those conversations onto a public forum. How would you feel if your SO did that?
4) I didn't avoid the question - please go back and read what you wrote for #4, then read my post again. If you need me to quote it, I will.
Don't call me a moron when you're apparently incapable of actually comprehending what was written in response to your post. I try pretty hard to be exquisitely clear.
1) Then why shame him at all, it's his fucking preference what he likes and what stories he tells, you are a moron for not accepting this. It's not comparable to rape (consent) just because you say so, no.
2) So, you're saying we should force people to talk about sex more? what if that girl didn't want to talk about her past until 3 years into it? who the fuck are you to say she should say it sooner? she played her cards the way she wanted to, you're too dense to realize you're criticizing the girl more than the guy for her not being transparent enough.
3) I wouldn't compare my girlfriend telling a personal story about me, to consent for sex from me, you obfuscating weirdo.
4) You did, your answer was shit, thus why called it such. It didn't answer my inquiry. Try again or implicitly concede.
Don't call me a moron for something you're hypocritically attributing to yourself, that you can't understand what I'm saying. I understand you fine.
If the hypothetical idea of an afterlife means more to you than the objectively true reality we all share, then you deserve no respect.