RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 11:59 am
(This post was last modified: April 21, 2015 at 12:01 pm by paulpablo.)
(April 21, 2015 at 11:51 am)Judi Lynn Wrote:Well you're basically saying we have no idea who she is or where she is from but that doesn't excuse him slut shaming her.(April 21, 2015 at 11:46 am)paulpablo Wrote: And as I've already said he used no insulting language or used her real name or gave a clue as to who they might be or where they live or anything, he just simply said that he and her were incompatible.He may not have used her real name or provided any information of there location, however, that doesn't excuse the fact that he slut shamed her here AND posted the exact same post over on TTA.
He listed seven things about her past he had an issue with (his words were those were just some of the things she told him). Apparently there was more than just what he listed.
That, in my opinion goes far beyond saying they are just incompatible.
1) I don't see how he can be shaming a person who nobody knows, on the radio if a celebrity talks about another celebrity and they don't want to shame them they usually say something like "I won't say the guys name." I don't see how it's shaming if no one knows her. She won't feel ashamed if she finds these things on the forum because either she did them and she knows she did them or he's lying about it, in which case she still has no reason to be ashamed because no one knows on here that he's talking about her and she didn't do them anyway.
2) There was no shaming language used to begin with, he just listed the things she did. He has an issue with these specific things but he didn't say these things are horrible, slutty, dirty or anything like that.
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