Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past

[paulpablo]

I don't see how disagreeing with someones lifestyle and talking about it on a forum is being disrespectful.
If an atheist on this website posted that they were in a relationship with a Muslim and they didn't realize at first how serious they were about being a Muslim and their religion in general would you complain and call them islamophobic and be outraged over their disrespect of their Muslim boyfriend?
I have a friend who's mother cheated on her husband with the husbands brother.  Also the persons actual brother has had multiple stripper girlfriends and STDs.  It doesn't matter that I'm giving you this info because you don't know me, you don't know my friend, it just simply doesn't matter.
I could type down 4 random numbers and they will probably be someones bank card pin details and so again I'll be giving you private information about someone you don't know but it effects no one.

And if you had an intimate conversation with a loved one in a private setting, and the first thing that loved one did is turn around and regurgitate the details of that conversation to a group of strangers in order to justify his breaking up with you, instead of talking to you directly... you don't see how any part of that might be disrespectful?

Not really. If someone did it to me I wouldn't be effected emotionally because no one on the forum would know who I was.  And if a girl said she was intimidated/disgusted by my sexual history it wouldn't bother me either.  Girls are very often intimidated and disgusted by my sexual history because I am admittedly a massive kinky sex freak and proud of it. 
I wouldn't feel disrespected if they expressed their dislike of my sexual history on a forum, they can't control how they feel, it's their life, and if they want to talk about it anonymously on a forum it's up to them.