RE: Do you care about your significant others sexual past with a poll.
April 22, 2015 at 8:11 am
(April 22, 2015 at 7:01 am)Nope Wrote:(April 22, 2015 at 6:44 am)paulpablo Wrote: Well this doesn't make sense to me. You said that if your previous partner had a history of tricking people into bed then it would concern you in a negative way. You said you find your partners sexual history also to be something you find interesting. You're concerned and interested about your partners sexual history yet you still didn't vote yes on this poll.
It makes sense to me.Lol I don't care if someone had numerous partners. Most of the people who are answering no probably mean that the number of partners don't bother them. The same people would be concerned if they discovered their lover lied to get people into bed or broke their word to be faithful so should they answer yes, also? The answers will be depend on how the respondents define the word care.
Oh ok, my point with making this poll is that if you use the standard definition of care, then everyone cares about the sexual history of their significant other.
The original poll that pauloroberts made was overall vastly talking more about the sexual history of his girlfriend relating to what websites she was on, the sex of the partners she had done things with, the type of sex she was having with her partners, and the age she was when she did it.
So sexual history isn't defined in general as JUST being about the number of people the person has slept with and in the original post pauloroberts made he also wasn't just talking about the numbers of people his girlfriend had slept with.
I think that everyone to some degree would care about at least some of the things pauloroberts mentioned and have some personal opinions and standards relating to them. For example the type of sex someone is having. Someone else just mentioned that they would care if their significant other enjoyed beating their partner to death during intercourse, that's exactly what I mean, any reasonable person would care about that. Pauloroberts happens to care if his partner had anal intercourse at one point and that's up to him if he cares about that then it's his opinion and his standards.
Basically I think some people have attacked the pauloroberts post so aggressively to the point where it's resulted in unreasonable statements like people saying they just simply do not care at all about their significant others sexual history I don't think it's a realistic outlook.
It might be accurate to say that you care less about your significant others sexual past than pauloroberts seems to.
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