RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 3:45 pm
(This post was last modified: April 27, 2015 at 3:45 pm by pauloroberts.)
(April 26, 2015 at 6:46 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote:(April 26, 2015 at 6:12 pm)pauloroberts Wrote: No the advice has been stupid. Now that I know what she was all along, I'm not happy about it. Her ability to bond has been compromised severely, and she has devalued herself.
To be clear -- You don't like the advice we've given, and that's fine. Hard to call it stupid. You have every right to not be happy about this; if it's a deal breaker it's a deal breaker.
But don't get it twisted. You have compromised your ability to bond with her. And you have devalued her. Keep it on your side of the street. These are your judgements of her.
There are many men who are not insecure about their sexual performance who would not go with a promiscuous woman (or whatever other term might be appropriate, if you catch my drift).
Promiscuity in women has been proven over and over again to be linked with an inability to bond. It is a well known fact.
Sucking off 2 men in an alleyway is not what I would call being in touch with her sexuality. Do you think that's classy? Same goes for all the other depraved things she's done.
I've been reading all the comments and chuckling to myself at the ignorance on this subject.
Anyway, don't let me get in the way. Do carry on.
